Comments on: Remembering Mother http://www.mycookery.com/blog/41/remembering-mother/ Man Does Not Live By Bread Alone ......... Moses Tue, 25 Oct 2011 11:21:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: KENGUELEOUA http://www.mycookery.com/blog/41/remembering-mother/comment-page-1/#comment-311 KENGUELEOUA Sat, 05 Aug 2006 11:14:06 +0000 http://www.mycookery.com/blog/?p=41#comment-311 Nora good morning. Thank you very much for sending me your email. I agree with you that mothers are angels. But I have problem with my mother, she never loves me, she has rejected me for some mistakes I committed in childhood in ignorance. And because of that I have never have what is a mother in my heart instead I loved my mother very much, she is the first person I loved dearly in my heart and in the world. But as I was growing up I did not yet express this love to her and she has been hurting me deeply for a long time for the mistakes I did in ignorance. This fact has hurt me deeply and make me to hate her in my heart and to hide my feelings from her because I'm to fragile in my heart and emotions because I'm fatherless since 10 months and I was away from her in my childhood so I never know what is father, what is mother really, never have affection and love from parents and family and people. I'm hiding it from inside from people not to know it and it is what i'm suffering from. In the family they don't know what i'm suffering from. That is my really problem. I have never been loved in my family. I'm someone who needs to be loved truly, I'm someone who needs and wants affetion, love and emotional things but they never knew that. I'm hiding it in my heart and I'm sick for that but people don't know and it is what really I'm suffering from before God but my brothers and sisters and my family never knew that because I'm secretful and hiding it my heart and it is destroying me. Actually, I'm in a big problem for that and don't know what to do. Can you help me? What advice can you give me? I have deep wound in my heart. Thank you for your reply. Good bless you. Nora good morning. Thank you very much for sending me your email. I agree with you that mothers are angels. But I have problem with my mother, she never loves me, she has rejected me for some mistakes I committed in childhood in ignorance. And because of that I have never have what is a mother in my heart instead I loved my mother very much, she is the first person I loved dearly in my heart and in the world. But as I was growing up I did not yet express this love to her and she has been hurting me deeply for a long time for the mistakes I did in ignorance. This fact has hurt me deeply and make me to hate her in my heart and to hide my feelings from her because I’m to fragile in my heart and emotions because I’m fatherless since 10 months and I was away from her in my childhood so I never know what is father, what is mother really, never have affection and love from parents and family and people. I’m hiding it from inside from people not to know it and it is what i’m suffering from. In the family they don’t know what i’m suffering from. That is my really problem. I have never been loved in my family. I’m someone who needs to be loved truly, I’m someone who needs and wants affetion, love and emotional things but they never knew that. I’m hiding it in my heart and I’m sick for that but people don’t know and it is what really I’m suffering from before God but my brothers and sisters and my family never knew that because I’m secretful and hiding it my heart and it is destroying me. Actually, I’m in a big problem for that and don’t know what to do. Can you help me? What advice can you give me? I have deep wound in my heart.
Thank you for your reply. Good bless you.

]]> By: nmaskuri http://www.mycookery.com/blog/41/remembering-mother/comment-page-1/#comment-41 nmaskuri Wed, 17 May 2006 03:28:41 +0000 http://www.mycookery.com/blog/?p=41#comment-41 Dear Usha And your children will too make amends with you, one day, as you will make amend with your mother! I am happy for you that you still have the opportunity to make things right by her. There is nothing wrong in disagreeing, all arguments are right, in your mind thats your truth, and in her mind, thats her truth, so no one is really wrong. So don't be sorry. My daughter argues with me all the time (& she's 9 yrs old, mind you) but as long as she has an opinion and speaks up, I think its her right, as long as she is not rude. Remember that a child is the shape and colour that her mother shapes her! And my daughter never fails to tell me, what she is , is because her mother shapes her! Like I said, she is only 9! can you imagine the days to come? Nora Dear Usha
And your children will too make amends with you, one day, as you will make amend with your mother! I am happy for you that you still have the opportunity to make things right by her. There is nothing wrong in disagreeing, all arguments are right, in your mind thats your truth, and in her mind, thats her truth, so no one is really wrong. So don’t be sorry. My daughter argues with me all the time (& she’s 9 yrs old, mind you) but as long as she has an opinion and speaks up, I think its her right, as long as she is not rude. Remember that a child is the shape and colour that her mother shapes her! And my daughter never fails to tell me, what she is , is because her mother shapes her! Like I said, she is only 9! can you imagine the days to come?

Nora

]]> By: nmaskuri http://www.mycookery.com/blog/41/remembering-mother/comment-page-1/#comment-40 nmaskuri Wed, 17 May 2006 03:18:44 +0000 http://www.mycookery.com/blog/?p=41#comment-40 Dear Molly I so understand what you are feeling, but if you let her go, you will then be able to find, within you, in your heart a way to communicate with her, like I do. If you think in terms of the eternal life she is in right now, then you will recognise there is really no death and separation. If you pray a lot or meditate, you will find some answers and forgiveness. For all the prayers that you do for her, she does the same for you too. Take heart, cheer up , the sun is shining, make the best of your life. Be happy. Nora Dear Molly
I so understand what you are feeling, but if you let her go, you will then be able to find, within you, in your heart a way to communicate with her, like I do. If you think in terms of the eternal life she is in right now, then you will recognise there is really no death and separation. If you pray a lot or meditate, you will find some answers and forgiveness. For all the prayers that you do for her, she does the same for you too. Take heart, cheer up , the sun is shining, make the best of your life. Be happy.
Nora

]]> By: nmaskuri http://www.mycookery.com/blog/41/remembering-mother/comment-page-1/#comment-39 nmaskuri Wed, 17 May 2006 03:11:34 +0000 http://www.mycookery.com/blog/?p=41#comment-39 Dear Bibi Because you had loved your mother that much, your children love you that much. Never doubt the universe will give to you that which you have earned. Its karma and it never fails you. Your son will return and when he does, you shall receive twice that you lose. Have faith in this, continue to send him blessings because the love energy is the strongest form of energy that exists...simply put, when someone receives a lot of love from another, and unconditional, he has to respond in the same manner. Nora Dear Bibi
Because you had loved your mother that much, your children love you that much. Never doubt the universe will give to you that which you have earned. Its karma and it never fails you. Your son will return and when he does, you shall receive twice that you lose. Have faith in this, continue to send him blessings because the love energy is the strongest form of energy that exists…simply put, when someone receives a lot of love from another, and unconditional, he has to respond in the same manner.
Nora

]]> By: nmaskuri http://www.mycookery.com/blog/41/remembering-mother/comment-page-1/#comment-38 nmaskuri Wed, 17 May 2006 03:05:11 +0000 http://www.mycookery.com/blog/?p=41#comment-38 Dear Shirely Thank you for your comment in this blog and a separate one that you sent to my email. I hope you will find the wisdom why this happens, but I see that your child is the angel that will hold your hand to walk this life. I sincerely hope you will consider pranic healing as I suggested. Remain the strong woman that you are and will always be. God Bless You and Shania Nora Dear Shirely
Thank you for your comment in this blog and a separate one that you sent to my email. I hope you will find the wisdom why this happens, but I see that your child is the angel that will hold your hand to walk this life. I sincerely hope you will consider pranic healing as I suggested. Remain the strong woman that you are and will always be.

God Bless You and Shania

Nora

]]> By: Usha http://www.mycookery.com/blog/41/remembering-mother/comment-page-1/#comment-34 Usha Sat, 13 May 2006 02:26:42 +0000 http://www.mycookery.com/blog/?p=41#comment-34 Nora, it is sad your mother is no more with you. All daughters have their disagreements with their mother somewhere along growing up..when we become mothers ourselves..we realise how precious our mothers are. But because we are egoistic and believe we can do better than our mothers..we continue to disagree with them when give advice. This has and is happening to me, i still disagree with a lot of things she says and never admit to her i am wrong even though I love her very much.. But lately i have realised (when I turned 50) I actually have done things as she had advised!! But it seems very difficult to say sorry that I had been wrong and she had been right all along.I am sure she is not expecting that from me..I know she loves me very much as I love my kids. Luckily she is still around (she is 80)...and before I regret I am going to make ammendments..All mothers are beautiful loving people...To all the wonderful mothers out there..Happy Mother's Day. Nora, it is sad your mother is no more with you. All daughters have their disagreements with their mother somewhere along growing up..when we become mothers ourselves..we realise how precious our mothers are. But because we are egoistic and believe we can do better than our mothers..we continue to disagree with them when give advice. This has and is happening to me, i still disagree with a lot of things she says and never admit to her i am wrong even though I love her very much.. But lately i have realised (when I turned 50) I actually have done things as she had advised!! But it seems very difficult to say sorry that I had been wrong and she had been right all along.I am sure she is not expecting that from me..I know she loves me very much as I love my kids. Luckily she is still around (she is 80)…and before I regret I am going to make ammendments..All mothers are beautiful loving people…To all the wonderful mothers out there..Happy Mother’s Day.

]]> By: Molly Elizabeth Tan http://www.mycookery.com/blog/41/remembering-mother/comment-page-1/#comment-33 Molly Elizabeth Tan Thu, 11 May 2006 00:13:45 +0000 http://www.mycookery.com/blog/?p=41#comment-33 I am still crying while penning this. I miss my mother (God rests her soul). Its been almost a decade she's gone but her memories and her love is as fresh as the flower's bloom. There were so many 'I should haves' even till now but what's the point? To the others who have their mothers still, no matter how bad (we think) they are, treat her well. There is no love as great as a mother's love. Happy Mother's Day! I am still crying while penning this. I miss my mother (God rests her soul). Its been almost a decade she’s gone but her memories and her love is as fresh as the flower’s bloom. There were so many ‘I should haves’ even till now but what’s the point? To the others who have their mothers still, no matter how bad (we think) they are, treat her well. There is no love as great as a mother’s love. Happy Mother’s Day!

]]> By: Bibi Pettypiece http://www.mycookery.com/blog/41/remembering-mother/comment-page-1/#comment-31 Bibi Pettypiece Tue, 09 May 2006 14:00:24 +0000 http://www.mycookery.com/blog/?p=41#comment-31 My mother was my best friend. I loved her deeply and after she died could not believe that I could ever hurt like that again. Then I had my children. It hurt when my son left home and I am sure that I will have a few more hurtful episodes. When I hear of children and parents arguing, I try to tell them that they should stop and love each other inspite of their faults because when you are parted they would wish that they got along. My mother was my best friend. I loved her deeply and after she died could not believe that I could ever hurt like that again. Then I had my children. It hurt when my son left home and I am sure that I will have a few more hurtful episodes. When I hear of children and parents arguing, I try to tell them that they should stop and love each other inspite of their faults because when you are parted they would wish that they got along.

]]> By: Shirely http://www.mycookery.com/blog/41/remembering-mother/comment-page-1/#comment-30 Shirely Tue, 09 May 2006 07:32:48 +0000 http://www.mycookery.com/blog/?p=41#comment-30 I must say reading this brought tears to my eyes. Unlike you Nora I am very happy to say that I have a wonderful relationship with my mum and Thank God for it. You know you are right about we all will turn out like our mothers in some ways. I am a Mother too. I have one daughter Shania. She is my first born. Sadly Shania suffers from "Edwards Syndrome". Their lifespan is short, they do not survive until 1year. But Shania is a fighter. She turned 2 in April 12 2006. She has 4 holes in the heart. One big and 3 small but thankfully the bigger one has closed. She has problems sleeping at night, she only sleeps at 3,4 or somethimes 5 in the morning everyday!!!!. Life has been like a roller coaster. Every time I look at my daughter I cry. There's so much I want to tell you but maybe someday soon. I wish to keep it short. You can check about Edwards on the net. Just to let you know Nora I am sorry about your loss. I believe you're a wonderful Mother and you write beautifully. Take care. I must say reading this brought tears to my eyes. Unlike you Nora I am very happy to say that I have a wonderful relationship with my mum and Thank God for it. You know you are right about we all will turn out like our mothers in some ways. I am a Mother too. I have one daughter Shania. She is my first born. Sadly Shania suffers from “Edwards Syndrome”. Their lifespan is short, they do not survive until 1year. But Shania is a fighter. She turned 2 in April 12 2006. She has 4 holes in the heart. One big and 3 small but thankfully the bigger one has closed. She has problems sleeping at night, she only sleeps at 3,4 or somethimes 5 in the morning everyday!!!!. Life has been like a roller coaster. Every time I look at my daughter I cry. There’s so much I want to tell you but maybe someday soon. I wish to keep it short. You can check about Edwards on the net. Just to let you know Nora I am sorry about your loss. I believe you’re a wonderful Mother and you write beautifully. Take care.

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